As everybody in Today’s world want to be liked or likable and have their own charisma and leave a positive impact on others. So what exactly charisma is?
“The result of excellent communication and social skills and compelling attractiveness or charm that can inspire devotion in others is CHARISMA.”
Since these skills can be learned and developed and hence everyone is capable of developing charisma. It just involves paying attention to how you interact with people , what does your body language speaks and these few attributes make you appealing and Charismatic.
Always remember Charisma Is something which you can learn and not born with …
Some of the most charismatic public figures in public are also the least charismatic at home. No matter what kind of personality you have there are certain traits you can practice and apply to your behavior that can possibly make you seem more magnetic, trustworthy, adorable, admirable and influential. This page explores few attributes Charismatic people posses and how you can develop them.
1. Art of Being Present.
Presence is all about being truly engaged with others. Give people your full attention. When you engage with someone in person, practice being still and listening. Sometimes your mind starts drifting away during conversation to prevent this start focussing on your breathing. When you come back start paying attention again to what the other person is saying. Pay attention to every word that comes out from someone else’s mouth.
2. Art of Being Confident.
Appearing confident can make you more charismatic because your confidence will inspire other to have faith in your abilities. If people see you as a confident person, they will naturally want to be around you. Here’s how to be confident: Be postive and speak with confidence,dressing in clothes that make you feel good, and talking about the things you will help you boost your confidence.
3. Art of being Interesting as well as Interested.
You should be able to talk to anyone about any topic, make others feel comfortable. If you don’t know how to talk to people on the most basic level, you need to practice. If you don’t know how to start a conversation, think to yourself what you would and wouldn’t like to talk about. Its not what you say but how you say it matters. On the other hand be a good and attentive listener and make the conversation interesting.
4. Art of being Expressive with Body Language.
Your body language express how you feel in a lot of different ways and can help others to approach you. Convey your confidence with good posture. Stand tall and walk steady but not rigidly. Try mirroring body language, posture, and facial expressions. You will find that the conversation will be very friendly and open. Body language can be good or bad so be aware how you make others feel such as,nodding is a great way to visibly show someone that you’re listening, but nodding too much can look worse than not doing anything at all.
5. Last but not Least SMILE 🙂
Smiling is a very important part of connecting and getting to know someone. Sincerely smile when you greet someone or someone greets you. It really is courteous and shifts your state to a positive one. Your smile should say that you’re excited about getting to know them. So when you smile not only will you make yourself feel better and you will also attract positive energy into your life.